Honoring Sacrifice, Restoring Strength: A Memorial Day Reset for Healthcare Leaders
Healthcare executives can use a holiday weekend like Memorial Day to recover from sustained stress by treating rest as a performance protocol rather than a pause. The most effective approach pairs deliberate physical recovery — sleep, movement, time outside — with small, intentional joy practices that interrupt the cognitive load of high-pressure leadership. Recovery is not the absence of work. It is the conditions under which leadership performance is restored.
A Holiday Weekend Is a Performance Window
Most healthcare leaders do not arrive at Memorial Day rested. They arrive depleted, mid-cycle on three competing priorities, with the next Monday already weighing on Sunday afternoon.
The instinct is to treat the weekend as a brief pause before the work resumes. That instinct is exactly the problem. When recovery is treated as a pause, it never quite happens, and leaders reenter the week carrying the same load they left with.
A holiday weekend is not a pause; it’s a window. And how leaders use that window shapes how they show up for their organizations, their teams, and their patients in the weeks that follow.
The Performance Cost of Skipped Recovery
Healthcare leadership runs on sustained pressure. Workforce shortages, regulatory shifts, patient acuity, and team turnover compound. Decisions stack up, energy runs thin, and when rest is consistently skipped, the cost also compounds.
Sleep deprivation and chronic stress degrade exactly the capacities healthcare leadership depends on most: clarity in decision-making, emotional regulation in high-stakes conversations, judgment under uncertainty, and the steady presence teams need to trust during change. Turnover among clinical and operational leaders is one of the most expensive performance problems in healthcare, and research from the Center for American Progress on the full cost of replacing experienced talent puts the leader’s own well-being squarely in the performance conversation, not the wellness one.
This is the lane healthcare leaders cannot afford to lose. Their own recovery is part of the system’s resilience.
Why Memorial Day Matters for the Recovery Cycle
Memorial Day is the unofficial gateway into summer, and for many healthcare leaders it’s the first sustained pause since the new fiscal year began.
This is part of the Ready stage of leadership recovery. It’s the time to honor those who served, to reset, and to remember what fuels leaders before next quarter’s demands escalate. Ready, in the Ready, Set, Go® framework, is about discovery, the work of getting clear on what restores you before you build the next plan or execute the next move. Skip Ready, and Set and Go cost more than they should.
For a healthcare executive, that discovery looks specific:
Where is your energy actually leaking?
Which meetings are draining you and your teams without producing decisions?
Which relationships restore you, and which ones extract from you?
What activities have you stopped making time for because the calendar swallowed them?
This is not soft work. It is the diagnostic work that determines how the next quarter performs.
Rest Is the Foundation, Not the Reward
The cultural script most healthcare leaders inherited treats rest as something earned after the work is done.
The work is never done. Which means, under that script, the rest never comes, and the body and the leadership both pay for it.
Tricia Hersey, founder of The Nap Ministry and author of Rest Is Resistance, has reframed rest as a foundational human practice rather than a luxury and a frame healthcare leaders, who watch the cost of exhaustion play out across their teams daily, are uniquely positioned to take seriously. As Mercedes Martin, founder and CEO of Mercedes Martin & Co. described it during our conversation, resilience is regenerative. It requires the capacity to stop, reenergize, and gather yourself back together.
In The Joyful Leader®, I write about the same principle from a different angle: There is power in slowing down and taking care of yourself before speeding back up to the finish line. For healthcare executives, that is not a wellness recommendation. It is a performance protocol.
Recovery is not the absence of work. It is the conditions under which performance is restored.
What Physical Resilience Looks Like for Healthcare Executives
Physical resilience is the foundation underneath every other type of resilience in the Sphere of Resilience® model.
If the body is depleted, mental, emotional, and spiritual resilience all run on a smaller battery. Memorial Day weekend is a chance to put deposits back into that foundation, and the practices that work are the unglamorous ones: a full night of sleep two or three nights in a row; an actual nap, movement outside, not on a screen; a meal that isn’t eaten standing up; time in nature without a phone in your hand.
These are not breaks from leadership. They are leadership inputs.
How Leaders Can Use Small Joys as Recovery Tools
The leaders I work with often resist this part because it sounds too small to matter.
Small is the point. The Joy Menu®, a tool I introduce in The Joyful Leader®, is a personal list of brief, reliable practices that restore energy and perspective: spending a few minutes outside, listening to music that shifts your mood, sipping a hot drink in a quiet moment, moving, or having a real conversation with someone you trust. For a healthcare executive whose week is built on decisions, these brief recoveries do something specific: They interrupt the cognitive load long enough for the system to reset.
When teams notice their leaders are more present, more measured, and less reactive, it’s rarely because those leaders took a sabbatical. It’s usually because small recoveries became consistent.
The Ready stage is where recovery begins.
What To Do This Weekend
Here are three deliberate moves that don’t require a full reset:
- Get one full night of sleep — protected, not pushed back to finish one more email.
- Do one activity that restores you and schedule it like a meeting, ideally outside and without your phone.
- Have one honest conversation about what’s depleting you with someone whose judgment you trust.
That is enough to shift how Monday lands.
FAQ
How can healthcare executives recover from sustained stress in a single weekend? A single weekend will not undo months of accumulated stress, but it can interrupt the cycle. The most effective approach is to prioritize one full night of sleep, one restorative activity outside, and one honest conversation about what is depleting you. These three inputs restore enough clarity and energy to make the following week measurably different.
Why does rest matter for healthcare leadership performance? Rest restores the cognitive, emotional, and physical capacities that healthcare leadership depends on most: clear decisions, regulated emotions, sound judgment under uncertainty, and a steady presence for teams. Skipped rest erodes each of these, and the cost compounds across organizations.
What is the Ready stage of the Ready, Set, Go® framework? Ready is the discovery stage. It is the work of getting clear on what restores you, what depletes you, and what your stress triggers actually are before designing your landscape (Set) or executing on goals (Go). Recovery weekends are a natural Ready moment.
Is joy a serious topic for healthcare executives? Yes. Joy in this context is not lightness or denial. Joy is the practice of intentionally restoring energy, perspective, and connection so that high-stakes leadership remains sustainable. Joy is a performance resource, not a soft skill.
Summary
Memorial Day is a recovery window healthcare executives can use deliberately. Pair physical recovery — sleep, movement, time outside — with small, intentional joy practices that interrupt cognitive load. That combination restores the clarity, judgment, and steadiness leadership performance depends on and protects the people and organizations leaders serve.
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If you are leading a healthcare organization through sustained pressure, the work of restoring your own resilience is not separate from your strategy. It’s part of it.
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